Louisville, Henry County, and Carroll County, KentuckyGrave Tending and Maintenance Services
Grave tending, headstone cleaning, floral placement, and gravesite maintenance for families who cannot be there — because the people you love deserve tended ground.
HONORING THE DEAD IS SACRED WORK
The cemetery maintains the lawn. No one tends the grave. The Gravetender fills that absence. We clean headstones, pull weeds, plant graveside gardens, place fresh flowers, and keep the plot looking loved — whether you need us once or every single month. Whatever your loved one's resting place needs, we show up and do the work.
We serve families who live out of state, families who are aging or unable to visit, and families who simply want to know the grave is kept without having to manage it themselves. Whether your loved one rests at Cave Hill Cemetery, a small parish cemetery in Henry County, or anywhere across the Louisville metro area, we come to them.
After every visit you receive timestamped photographs by email or text. You see the stone. You see the fresh flowers. You know the ground is kept.
The GravetenderAbout Tiffany Dawn Smith
I started The Gravetender because I lived it myself. Moving away from family meant leaving behind the graves of people I loved with no one to tend them.
As a certified death doula, honoring the dead feels like a natural extension of the work I already do. I believe our ancestors and loved ones deserve tended ground, remembrance, and continued dignity.
I'm communicative, reliable, and I take the responsibility seriously. After every visit you'll get photos and a quick note on what was done.
Serving Louisville, Henry County, and Carroll County, Kentucky.
What We OfferGrave Tending Services
From one-time care to ongoing monthly stewardship of your loved one's final resting place.
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GRAVESITE MAINTENANCE
Weeding, edging, debris removal, grass trimming around the plot, and general tidying. The site will look tended, not abandoned.
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HEADSTONE CLEANING
Safe, stone-appropriate biological cleaning to remove moss, algae, mildew, and staining from granite, marble, limestone, and bronze markers.
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FLORAL PLACEMENT
Fresh or silk flowers placed with care on birthdays, anniversaries, Memorial Day, Christmas, Mother's Day, or any date that matters to you.
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PHOTO DOCUMENTATION
Timestamped before-and-after photographs sent directly to you after every visit so you can see the work done and overall condition.
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SUBSCRIPTION CARE PLANS
Monthly or quarterly recurring visits for ongoing upkeep. Ideal for families living out of state or those who simply want consistent, dependable care.
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MULTIPLE GRAVESITE PLANS
Tending the graves of more than one family member? Discounted bundles are available for two, three, or more gravesites under a single plan.
Transparent ratesPRICING
All visits include timestamped before-and-after photo reports sent directly to you by email or text.
HeadStone CleaningSTONE CARE SERVICES
Using D/2 Biological Solution and Orvus paste — safe on granite, marble, limestone, and bronze.
THE RESTORATION
$249
multi-visit headstone renewal
⚜ Up to 4 return visits until restoration is complete (it can take 6-12 months for biological cleaners to process)
⚜ D/2 Biological cleaner + Orvus paste treatment
⚜ Trimming & weeding of the plot each visit
⚜ Before-and-after photo report every visit
⚜ Best for heavily weathered, mossy, or neglected stones
THE CLEANSING
$109
one thorough cleaning visit
⚜ One full cleaning visit
⚜ D/2 Biological cleaner and Orvus paste treatment
⚜ Weeding and plot tidying included
⚜ Before-and-after photo report
⚜ Good for stones that need a seasonal refresh
THE UNVEILING
$69
flush or flat grave markers
⚜ Flat and flush grave markers only
⚜ Full biological cleaning treatment
⚜ Grass and debris cleared from all marker edges
⚜ Before-and-after photo report
Flowers & GardensFLORAL & PLANTING SERVICES
Fresh flowers, custom arrangements, and living planted gardens placed with care on the dates that matter most.
THE LIVING MEMORIAL
$129+
labor starting at $125 — plants & materials additional
⚜ Soil bed preparation and conditioning
⚜ Seasonal flowers or plants chosen for the site and climate
⚜ Fertilizer, water, and mulch bed included in materials
⚜ Hardy, low-maintenance varieties selected by default
⚜ Ongoing maintenance plans available separately
⚜ Itemized materials estimate provided before any purchase
⚜ Photo documentation of the completed garden
THE REMEMBRANCE
$79
placement labor — flowers & materials additional
⚜ Scheduled around birthdays, anniversaries, or holidays
⚜ Full plot tidy, debris removal, and edging
⚜ Floral placement available — flowers billed separately at cost
⚜ Photo report sent on or near the chosen date
THE OFFERING
$59
placement labor — flowers & materials additional
⚜ Fresh cut flowers or faux arrangements available
⚜ Seasonal accents, decorative picks, and ribbon dressing
⚜ Arranged for birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, or any date
⚜ Flowers and materials billed at cost — you approve before purchase
⚜ Photo confirmation sent after every placement
Note: some cemeteries prohibit artificial flowers — we confirm restrictions before every order
All floral and planting services include labor and placement only. Plants, soil, flowers, and all other materials are billed separately at actual cost. You will receive an itemized estimate and approve all material purchases before any order is placed.
Ongoing CareSUBSCRIPTION PLANS
Recurring care so the grave is always kept — no scheduling, no reminders, no wondering whether it's been tended.
QUARTERLY - 4 VISITS PER YEAR
THE WATCHMAN
$159
per year - one visit per season
⚜ One visit per season — Spring, Summer, Fall, and Winter
⚜ Weeding around the headstone and plot edges
⚜ Removal of leaves, sticks, and accumulated debris
⚜ Plot edging tidied and cleared
⚜ Visual inspection of the headstone noted in your report
⚜ Timestamped photo report sent after every visit
⚜ Best suited for well-maintained plots that need consistent oversight rather than heavy work
MONTHLY - MOST REQUESTED
THE STEWARD
$49
per month - 12 visits per year
⚜ Monthly maintenance visit year-round
⚜ Weeding, edging, and debris removal
⚜ Photo report after every visit
⚜ Floral placement on 2 dates per year (flowers are an additional charge at market cost)
⚜ One full headstone cleaning annually
PREMIUM MONTHLY - FULL SERVICE
THE DEVOTED
$79
per month - priority service
⚜ Monthly visit year-round
⚜ Weeding, edging, and debris removal
⚜ Two headstone cleanings annually
⚜ Floral placement on 4 dates of your choosing (flowers are an additional charge at market cost)
⚜ Priority scheduling around holidays
⚜ Photo report after every visit
MULTIPLE GRAVESITES
Tending the graves of a spouse, parents, siblings, or other family members?
We offer bundle discounts so every grave receives the same devoted care.
2 GRAVESITES 10% OFF TOTAL PLAN
3 GRAVESITES 15% OFF TOTAL PLAN
4+ GRAVESITES CONTACT FOR CUSTOM QUOTE
All pricing subject to travel distance. Cemeteries outside Jefferson and Henry Counties may incur a small mileage fee. Flowers are priced at market cost. Some cemeteries prohibit artificial flowers — we confirm restrictions before every floral order.
How it works
I - REACH OUT
Fill out the contact form below or send an email. Tell us where your loved one is buried, what you're hoping for, and how often you'd like us to visit.
2 - FIRST VISIT
We visit the gravesite, assess the stone and plot condition, and carry out the initial tending. You receive a full photo report showing the before and after.
III - ONGOING CARE
For subscription clients, we return on schedule. You receive photos after every visit. Payment is handled simply online via credit or debit card.
IV - YOU STAY CLOSE
Distance doesn't have to mean disconnection. Each photo report is a quiet confirmation: they are remembered. The ground is kept. Someone was there.
Frequently Asked Questions
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The Gravetender serves Louisville and Jefferson County, Kentucky, with a focus on Cave Hill Cemetery, Eastern Cemetery, Evergreen Cemetery, Calvary Cemetery, Resthaven Memorial Park, Zachary Taylor National Cemetery, and most other Louisville-area cemeteries. We also serve Henry County, Kentucky, including New Castle and surrounding rural cemeteries.
Clients outside this area are welcome to inquire. A travel fee may apply depending on distance.
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Each cemetery has its own regulations regarding outside maintenance providers. We contact each cemetery we work in to understand their rules before we begin. Most cemeteries welcome supplemental care because their staff handles only general grounds maintenance — individual plot care is the family's responsibility. We operate respectfully within each cemetery's guidelines.
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Absolutely. One of the most meaningful things we offer is timed visits. We can place flowers and document the gravesite on a loved one's birthday, your wedding anniversary, Memorial Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, Christmas, or any other date you name. For subscription clients, holiday visits are built into higher-tier plans. For one-time clients, simply let us know the date when you book.
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This varies by cemetery, and it is important to know before you order. Cave Hill Cemetery does not permit artificial flowers. If your loved one rests at Cave Hill or another cemetery with similar restrictions, we will use fresh flowers only and advise you accordingly. Please mention the cemetery when you inquire so we can confirm the rules for that location.
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After every visit, we send timestamped photographs directly to you by email or text — whichever you prefer. Photos show the gravesite before and after the visit. Subscription clients can also request that photos be shared with additional family members.
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We accept credit and debit cards (Visa, Mastercard, American Express, and Discover), and all transactions are handled securely through our website. Subscription plans can be paid monthly or annually. Annual plans paid upfront receive a small discount. One-time services are invoiced before or at the time of service.
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es, and we encourage it. If you have two parents, a spouse, and a sibling all in the same cemetery — or spread across different cemeteries — we can build a bundled plan that covers all of them. Clients with two gravesites receive 10% off the combined plan; three gravesites receive 15% off. For four or more, contact us for a custom quote.
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We use D/2 Biological Solution, the industry-recognized standard for safe headstone cleaning. It is approved by the National Park Service and recommended by monument conservation professionals. It is safe on granite, marble, limestone, sandstone, and bronze, and it will not damage the stone. We never use bleach, acid-based cleaners, or pressure washers on headstones.
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A death doula is a trained companion who supports individuals and families through the dying process and the grief that follows — much like a birth doula supports families during new life. As a certified death doula, I approach this work with a deep understanding of loss, memory, and the human need to honor the dead.
Grave tending is not lawn maintenance, it is an act of remembrance and love.
Request Care
Tell us about your loved one's resting place and what kind of care you're looking for. We'll follow up within one to two business days.
EMAIL: tiffany@tendingthegrave.com
Primary service areas: Cave Hill Cemetery · Eastern Cemetery · Calvary Cemetery · Evergreen Cemetery · Resthaven Memorial Park · Zachary Taylor National Cemetery · Louisville Memorial Gardens · Henry County and Carroll County rural cemeteries